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3.8
814 Ratings

My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument

Comment je me suis disputé... (ma vie sexuelle)

Directed by Arnaud Desplechin
France, 1996
Comedy, Drama, Romance

Synopsis

Paul Dedalus is at a crossroads in his life. He has to make several decisions; should he complete his doctorate, does he want to become a full professor, does he really love his long-standing girlfriend, or should he re-start with one of his other lovers?

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My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument Directed by Arnaud Desplechin
The hip urbanite relationship gabfest to end all hip urbanite relationship gabfests, [this] tour de force weaves together characters, social and personal anxieties, notes of stark drama, claustrophobic party scenes, and comic interludes with a deftness that, on some level, brings to mind another ambitious breakthrough that hit American theaters in 1997: Boogie Nights. The difference is that Desplechin’s creative energy is essentially neurotic, his characters tightly wound, his camera squirrelly.
August 10, 2017
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It has to be the best movie title ever: My Sex Life… or How I Got Into an Argument or, as it was reversed in the original French release, Comment je me suis disputé… (Ma vie sexuelle). But any way you parse it, the film to which the title belongs—Arnaud Desplechin’s second feature, released in 1996 and currently available only in a dark and wan DVD—is a delayed coming-of-age masterpiece and one of the great French post–New Wave films.
November 16, 2015
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Like Truffaut, whom he acknowledges as monumental and inspirational, Desplechin makes films that look simple at first but (pace Kent Jones) take on a protean charge, eager to move into something new, to grab hold of a moment, if briefly, before rushing forward. My Sex Life… is nearly three hours long but it never flags; it pauses, it fades, but it never halts; it asks to be followed; and it’s so goddamned endearing, so charming, that it would be foolish to resist.
November 08, 2008
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